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Context · Safety

Sextortion is when someone tricks a kid into sending a nude photo, then threatens to send it to everyone they know unless the kid pays or sends more. It moves fast, often in a single night, and right now it is aimed most at teen boys.

Why this matters for your kid

This is not a rare story. The National Center for Missing and Exploited Children now gets around 100 reports of it a day. The scammer usually poses as a cute girl about the same age, messages on Instagram, Snapchat, or a game, moves quickly to get one image, and the second they have it the friendly act turns into threats.

What your child experiences

Total panic and shame, which is exactly what the scammer is counting on, because a scared kid pays and stays silent. Boys 14 to 17 are the main target, and the shame is the dangerous part, it is what keeps them from telling anyone.

What to watch for

Get ahead of this one out loud. Tell your kid plainly: if anyone online ever gets a photo like this and threatens you, it is a scam, you are not in trouble, and you are not alone. Stop responding, do not pay, take screenshots, block them, and come straight to me. Saying it before it happens is what lets them come to you if it ever does.

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