Context · Safety
Sextortion is when someone tricks a kid into sending a nude photo, then threatens to send it to everyone they know unless the kid pays or sends more. It moves fast, often in a single night, and right now it’s aimed most at teen boys.
Why this matters for your kid
This isn’t a rare story. The National Center for Missing and Exploited Children took in more than 100 reports of it a day in 2025. The scammer usually poses as a cute girl about the same age, messages on Instagram, Snapchat, or a game, moves quickly to get one image, and the second they have it the friendly act turns into threats.
What your child experiences
Total panic and shame, which is exactly what the scammer is counting on, because a scared kid pays and stays silent. It usually arrives as a friendly DM on Instagram or Snapchat and turns threatening inside the same evening. Boys 14 to 17 are about nine in ten of the victims, and the shame is the dangerous part, it’s what keeps them from telling anyone.
Say it before it happens
Get ahead of this one out loud. Tell your kid plainly: if anyone online ever gets a photo like this and threatens you, it’s a scam, you aren’t in trouble, and you aren’t alone. Stop responding, don’t pay, take screenshots, block them, and come straight to me. Saying it before it happens is what lets them come to you if it ever does.