Parent Scripts
How to Start the Conversation with Other Parents
The exact words, so it doesn't have to be awkward
The conversation most parents want to have and almost never start is reaching out to another parent to say "I'm thinking about delaying Snapchat, are you?" It feels strange because we're not used to coordinating on parenting, but it's one of the most impactful things you can do.
Script: The casual text
"Hey, random question but are you thinking about Snapchat yet? We're trying to figure out when/if to let [child] get it and wondering where you guys are at."
That's it, casual and non-judgmental. It opens the door without making anyone feel accused, and most parents who get asked this way are relieved someone brought it up first.
Script: At a school event
"Can I ask, are the kids in [grade] all on Snapchat now? We're trying to figure out what's normal and what's just what it feels like is normal."
The second script works because it positions you as curious, not preachy. You're gathering information. That's a completely different energy than "we don't allow that in our house."
Script: When you want to coordinate
"We've decided to wait on Snapchat until [age]. I know it's a lot easier if more families are on the same page, is that something you'd consider too? Even just knowing another family is doing the same thing helps."