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Pick Me

Teen slang, explained for parents.

What it means

Someone who acts differently to get approval or attention, especially from the opposite gender. "She's such a pick-me." Can be harmless social commentary but is increasingly used to bully girls who express interests that differ from the group.

How to bring it up with your kid

"I've heard kids use pick-me as an insult, what does it mean in your world?" Worth checking whether it is being used to shame individuality or just as social commentary.

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