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Schools & Policy
The conversation about screens has moved into classrooms. Here's what's happening, and what you can do about it.
The Phone-Free School Movement
More than 90% of US parents support phone bans in schools. Dozens of states now have laws on the books.
The research is consistent: phone-free schools see reduced anxiety, more peer interaction, better sleep, and higher attendance. Students also report feeling less left out when phones aren't visible.
What to look for: Has your child's school published a phone policy? Does it apply during the full school day, or just during class time? Storage policies (lockers, pouches) make the biggest difference.
Smartphone Free Childhood US
Parent-led movement to make phone-free childhood the norm. Find your local chapter, join a school campaign, and download slide decks + evidence packs to present to your school.
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Research-backed resources for school administrators and parent advocates. Case studies, policy templates, and the latest data on phone-free outcomes.
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AI in Classrooms
Schools are adopting AI faster than any policy can keep up with.
In 2025, Fairfax County Public Schools launched a pilot giving students access to OpenAI tools. Many districts are now making district-wide decisions about ChatGPT, AI writing tools, and EdTech platforms, often without much parent input.
The question isn't whether AI belongs in education. It's whether our children are learning to think first, or to prompt first.
Questions to ask your child's school
· Does your school have an AI use policy for students?
· Are teachers trained to detect AI-generated work?
· What AI tools (if any) are approved for student use?
· Can parents opt their child out of EdTech data collection?
· Is paper-and-pencil still an option for assignments?
· Are teachers trained to detect AI-generated work?
· What AI tools (if any) are approved for student use?
· Can parents opt their child out of EdTech data collection?
· Is paper-and-pencil still an option for assignments?
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Legislative momentum is building fast.
Phone bans in schools: California, Florida, Virginia, Indiana and others have passed laws restricting student phone use. More states follow each session.
Social media age restrictions: Several states now require age verification for social media accounts, with ongoing federal legislation in progress.
Children's online privacy: COPPA updates and state-level children's data privacy bills are expanding protections beyond the original 1998 law.
Social media age restrictions: Several states now require age verification for social media accounts, with ongoing federal legislation in progress.
Children's online privacy: COPPA updates and state-level children's data privacy bills are expanding protections beyond the original 1998 law.
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What Parents Can Do
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✓ Ask your school for their current phone policy in writing
✓ Find out if your district has an AI use policy for students
✓ Join or start a parent group around phone-free childhood
✓ Sign the Delay Manifesto at protectyoungeyes.com
✓ Share TDC scripts with your child's teacher
✓ Attend a school board meeting and raise these questions
✓ Find out if your district has an AI use policy for students
✓ Join or start a parent group around phone-free childhood
✓ Sign the Delay Manifesto at protectyoungeyes.com
✓ Share TDC scripts with your child's teacher
✓ Attend a school board meeting and raise these questions
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A growing coalition of parents committed to delaying smartphones and social media. Add your name and share it with other families at your school.
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Everything you need to start the conversation at your child's school. Talking points, research summaries, and sample letters you can use at PTA meetings, parent nights, or in an email to your principal.
Talking Points
The research is clear: Phone free schools see measurable improvement in student wellbeing, focus, and peer connection. Here's what you can share:
1. Students in phone free schools report less anxiety and better sleep.
2. Academic performance improves, especially for students who were struggling.
3. Cyberbullying incidents drop when phones leave the hallways.
4. 90%+ of US parents support phone restrictions during school hours.
5. Students themselves often report relief once the norm is set for everyone.
1. Students in phone free schools report less anxiety and better sleep.
2. Academic performance improves, especially for students who were struggling.
3. Cyberbullying incidents drop when phones leave the hallways.
4. 90%+ of US parents support phone restrictions during school hours.
5. Students themselves often report relief once the norm is set for everyone.
Sample Letter to Your Principal
Dear [Principal's Name],
I am writing as a parent of a student at [School Name] to express my support for implementing a phone free policy during school hours. Research consistently shows that removing phones from the school environment improves student focus, reduces anxiety, and strengthens peer relationships.
I would welcome the opportunity to discuss this at an upcoming PTA meeting or parent forum. Many families in our community feel the same way, and I believe a school wide approach would have broad support.
I am happy to share additional research or connect you with other schools that have successfully implemented similar policies.
Thank you for your time and leadership.
Sincerely,
[Your Name]
I am writing as a parent of a student at [School Name] to express my support for implementing a phone free policy during school hours. Research consistently shows that removing phones from the school environment improves student focus, reduces anxiety, and strengthens peer relationships.
I would welcome the opportunity to discuss this at an upcoming PTA meeting or parent forum. Many families in our community feel the same way, and I believe a school wide approach would have broad support.
I am happy to share additional research or connect you with other schools that have successfully implemented similar policies.
Thank you for your time and leadership.
Sincerely,
[Your Name]
PTA Meeting Agenda
Suggested 15 minute agenda item:
2 min: Share why this matters to your family
5 min: Present the research (use talking points above)
3 min: Show what other schools are doing
5 min: Open it up: "How many of you feel the same way?"
Tip: You don't need to have all the answers. You just need to start the conversation.
2 min: Share why this matters to your family
5 min: Present the research (use talking points above)
3 min: Show what other schools are doing
5 min: Open it up: "How many of you feel the same way?"
Tip: You don't need to have all the answers. You just need to start the conversation.
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