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The Social Years

“If I delete it, I'll lose all my followers.”

Written by Chelsea Redeker ·

What to say

Start here

"I know that number means a lot to you, and I get that losing them feels like a real loss. A lot of those followers are accounts that watched you once and moved on, some of them are bots, and only a few are real people you actually know."

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There's more to this one.

The other 2 steps are in the app, word for word, including what to say when they push back. Eight of the scripts are free in full, and all 35 are $19 once, no subscription. Nothing to download.

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Why this matters

For a teenager, a follower count can feel like it says something about who they are. You don't have to agree with that, but if you take it seriously, they'll actually talk to you about it. Deactivating the account for a while is a lot less scary for them than deleting it, and they still get a real break.

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